Happy Birthday Dr. Seuss

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On Saturday, March 2, we will celebrate Dr. Seuss’ birthday. Your child has probably reminded you of this already.

Born Theodor Seuss Geisel in 1904, his family and friends called him “Ted.” Although educated in literature, his love for drawing led him to an early career creating cartoons and then writing successful advertising campaigns, which became his main source of income.

Twenty years after publishing his first book, And to Think That I Saw It on Mulberry Street (1937), he published The Cat in the Hat. That book changed his career and the lives of children forever more.

Known for creating over 44 children’s books, Dr. Seuss focused first on teaching children to think. And then to read. Green Eggs and Ham, which uses fewer than 50 different words, is his best-selling title, followed by The Cat in the Hat.

This week, as we celebrate the gifts Dr. Seuss left behind, encourage your children to create words and characters of their own. Then read our article entitled The Imagination Station for more information on the value of illustrating.

(Slides Courtesy of Random House 2013)

Surviving Valentine’s Day

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Years ago, St. Valentine’s Day was a simple holiday. Every child put a Valentine into the mailbox of every other student. No one was left out.

But today, the practice of honoring one another on Valentine’s Day has become a quagmire filled with opportunities for rejection for both children and adults. And the sting of not being valued – or perceiving that one is not valued – can plant seeds of unworthiness deep into a person’s soul. Knowing how complicated this holiday has become, we would like to offer a few guidelines to help us – and our children – survive Valentine’s Day.

First of all, remember that even if NO ONE expresses appreciation for you this Valentine’s Day, God loves you and values you. Unconditionally and without question. It is settled.

Secondly, since we are celebrating a holiday that, by default, highlights loneliness and isolation and can be so devastating for so many – perhaps we should each target one person who would ordinarily be overlooked and plan on honoring them on the 14th. We have time to create and carry out this noble quest. Beginning with a family meeting, ask the children who – in their class – stands alone, never speaks during lunch, or never makes eye contact. Your children will rise to this selfless cause. Then consider who is “outside your gate.” Maybe there is a widowed neighbor or a single woman with no special someone in her life.

Thirdly, we can make sure that in our own homes, special gestures of love and affection are expressed. A note hidden in a backpack or in a shoe are gentle reminders that someone cares. And even if we are presented with a macaroni necklace, we must remember to always be gracious.

Now the issue of graciousness becomes a little more delicate if you have a man in your life because it is important to note that most men simply tolerate the holiday. It is the woman’s responsibility to bring a spirit of celebration into the home. In addition, men do not like to fail, therefore gift giving is always a big risk for them. For example, consider the following scenario.

A man and woman were at a friend’s house and the woman told the hostess that she liked the meal. Pleased, the hostess proceeded to explain the cooking procedure which included using her special frying pan. The guest then responded “Gee, Hostess, what a great pan.” That comment went into her husband’s gift-giving-data-base. At the next holiday, the woman was presented with the frying pan from her proud man. When she opened the gift and saw that it was a pan she said, “You know I don’t like to cook. Are you saying that you don’t like that about me? Do you think I should change?” And all the poor guy wanted to do was buy something he knew she would like.

Men struggle with gift giving, wanting to please, but concerned of failing. So take the pressure off the man in your life. Gently let him know what it would take to please you. Allow him to be successful and help him celebrate the day.

And just in case you did not know … we love you … our readers … and appreciate you every day.

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